
Should You Ever Be Naked Around Your Kids? Here's What Experts Actually Think
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"If they are grossed out, scream ‘awkward’ in embarrassment or run, you have your answer."
As a parent, being nude in front of your kids occasionally is unavoidable. Maybe you stepped out of the shower as they barged through the bathroom door, or you ran to grab a towel as you were getting dressed.
While these brief encounters are unlikely to scar your child permanently, you may have questions about whether it’s okay for them to see you naked. Should you cover up? Is there a certain age when nudity is not appropriate?
“It really depends on a few factors, including your kid’s age, maturity level and unique development, as well as your preferences, culture, family values, parenting style and relationship with your kids,” said Reena Patel, a psychologist, parenting expert and licensed educational board-certified behavior analyst.
Before preschool, children may not notice or understand the concept of nudity. As they become more aware of their own body, they may begin asking questions about bodies in general or may want more privacy. So, it’s natural for family norms surrounding nudity to evolve, said Kanchi Wijesekera, a licensed clinical psychologist and clinical director at Milika Center for Therapy and Resilience.
Below, experts share advice on how to navigate nudity with your family in mundane, everyday (and very obviously safe, nonsexual) situations.
