Moving back with my parents made me realize how society makes young people struggle
CBC
This First Person column is the experience of Aubrianna Snow, who lives in Sherwood Park, Alta. For more information about CBC's First Person stories, please see the FAQ.
It was the hottest day of the year and I was packing up my mugs.
I had assembled the collection over five years of living on my own — mugs commemorating trips, cartoon characters, places I had worked or volunteered — all now destined for storage in my parents' garage.
Putting them away was like ending a friendship. It had already been a very challenging year and it was only July.
My lease was up in a month and my landlord had decided to raise my rent by about 20 per cent. I couldn't really blame him. I knew he could be getting more for his place in this economy.
The problem was I now couldn't get much more than a room in Edmonton for the price I'd been paying and I wasn't working. Most of my work had been contract positions, and finding something more permanent was a challenge.
My parents had suggested I stay with them for a year until I got back on my feet. It was a generous offer, but it wasn't my favourite idea.
Something about it felt like regressing and backtracking all the progress I'd made to become an independent, self-sufficient adult. There was a certain shame in being back in my parents' basement, now 26 and jobless.
I had tried to do everything right since I turned 18. I overextended myself — working, going to school, volunteering, writing and trying to secure a stable future. And despite it all, I still found myself here.
The idea of moving back in with my parents had some appealing qualities. My mom's health had been up and down over the course of the past year and caring for our family's three large dogs had become a challenge for her while my dad worked out of town.
If nothing else, it would be an opportunity for me to help out around the house and save some money at the same time.
I decided to go for it. After all, it was a temporary measure. If it really didn't work out, I could probably move on within a few months.
I'd read every article offering advice for moving back in with parents as an adult and anticipated a major adjustment period on my end. The challenges and sacrifices I had anticipated, though, never came.
My parents and I quickly fell into a routine. I found I enjoyed the chance to check in with them every day, do chores and make myself useful for my family. In fact, it was less work overall than it had been living on my own. I forewent my childhood bedroom in favour of the guest room. Settling in with my parents as an adult felt different than living at home as a child.
Ontario’s Progressive Conservatives will huddle behind closed doors at a policy convention this weekend as some Tories question the party’s direction after nearly eight years in power.
The father of a three-year-old girl that was killed after being struck by a vehicle in Cambridge in mid-December says recent charges laid to the driver bring little comfort and relief.
The start of kindergarten can be a time of excitement or anxiety for parents, guardians and children — and also for Prince Edward Island's education officials as they try to staff schools appropriately.
Nunavut Nukkiksautiit Corporation (NNC)’s proposed hydro project is facing some backlash in Pangnirtung.
Conservative Leader Pierre Poilievre will take to the stage Friday for what could be one of the most important speeches of his political career as he tries to convince delegates at the party's Calgary convention to keep him in the job.
As his flight departed from Amsterdam's Schiphol airport en route to Kuwait via Istanbul, Canadian crypto fugitive Andean Medjedovic was unaware that his globe-trotting lifestyle would soon be halted.
One of the largest taxi companies in Toronto will be down to three wheelchair-accessible cabs by the end of March, as advocates and providers say the city is failing to support accessible taxi drivers.
As a deep freeze continues to envelop southwestern Ontario at the same time municipalities deal with a pressing shortage of road salt, there's a renewed focus on finding different ways to melt road ice.
Dave Lawson is a proud Canadian who has bumper stickers that say "Canada is not for sale." He's fed up with grocery products plastered with maple leaves and patriotic logos that turn out to be American imports.
The Town of Badger has issued an evacuation order for some residents as water levels on the Exploits River continue to rise.
The head of a national seniors' advocacy organization says protecting nursing home residents from sexual abuse is an important but challenging issue.
New data shows Winnipeg's fire-paramedic service fielded hundreds of reports involving the city's homeless population, but one advocate says she expects that number to go down in light of the city's limits on where encampments can be.
Former students of the Île-à-la-Crosse Boarding School have reached a settlement in their lawsuit against the federal government.