Here's how to beat the hype and overcome loneliness on Valentine's Day
ABC News
Valentine’s Day is one of those holidays that haters love to hate
NEW YORK -- Elise Plessis hasn't been in a long-term relationship for 26 years. It's by choice, yet she still suffers FOMO when Valentine's Day rolls around.
“I'm the singleton of the family and the friend group,” said the 53-year-old Plessis, who lives in Manitoba, Canada. “Valentine's Day makes me feel hopeless, like a loser who can't find anyone who wants me.”
But she won't be sitting at home cursing her fate, self-imposed after she tired of “toxic” hookup culture. Instead, Plessis plans to do what loneliness researchers and psychologists advise: She'll be helping others as a way to get out of her own head.
In her case, she'll be helping others find love. She became a certified matchmaker last year and has organized a speed-dating event ahead of Valentine's Day.
“I figure if I can’t find love, it's the least I can do,” Plessis said.
