Half a century later, an Indian family relives the personal tragedy of the 1973 Yom Kippur War

The ongoing violence between Israel and Palestine has triggered a surge of memories for a Delhi family; half a century ago, their lives had been permanently changed by the 1973 Yom Kippur War

The latest round of fighting between Israelis and Palestinians erupted on October 7, 2023, on the second day of Yom Kippur, the Jewish period of atonement and prayer. About 4,000 km away, the violence triggered a surge of memories in the residence of the Jha family in the capital’s Golf Links neighbourhood; half a century ago, their lives had been permanently changed by the 1973 Yom Kippur War, which had pitted Israel against a coalition of Arab States led by Syria and Egypt.

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The 1973 war had not yet broken out when Usha Chettur, the prominent Odissi exponent and wife of upcoming journalist Prem Shankar Jha, decided to travel to Syria. Chettur hailed from Kerala and had married Mr. Jha five years earlier. The two made a notable couple, successfully navigating the cultural scene of New Delhi in the late 1960s and the early 1970s.

Chettur flew in from Delhi to Damascus after a stopover in Beirut. Her visit was part of the cultural diplomacy of the Indian government under Prime Minister Indira Gandhi, which was close to Syria and the rest of the Arab nationalist governments of the region. After a successful tour, Chettur was supposed to fly back on October 7. However, history changed a day earlier.

In a surprise attack on October 6, Egypt and Syria made their moves to reclaim the Sinai peninsula and the Golan Heights, which had both been lost to Israel in the 1967 war. The initial three days of the war inflicted heavy losses on Israel, and the invincibility of the Israeli forces took a knock as the Arab forces overran Israeli defences, including the famous Bar Lev line that fell to the Egyptian attack across the Sinai.

The beginning of the war and Chettur’s stay in Syria coincided briefly, as she had planned to return on October 7. However, guided by some individuals, she delayed her departure by a few days as there were difficulties in catching a flight from Beirut. In the meantime, some of the local notables of Damascus decided to organise a coffee get-together on October 9 to honour the dancer.

That afternoon, Chettur headed for the party, whose attendees were mainly the notable women of Damascus. As the interaction got underway, two Israeli fighter jets carrying bombs took off from an airbase inside Israeli territory; within minutes, they had reached the skies above Damascus. Already, there were expectations that the Israelis were preparing to strike deep inside Syria, and as a result, there were heightened preparations around the headquarters of the Syrian air force.