Meet the men who, like Keith Urban, walked out of their decades-long marriages — and the man making a mint from guiding them
NY Post
In the past 20 years, attorney John Nachlinger has handled more than 2,000 divorces.
A self-described “men’s divorce strategist,” Nachlinger wants dissatisfied husbands to know that calling it quits isn’t a sign of defeat, but of bravery and self-care. In 2020, he even started a podcast and will soon publish a book — both bluntly titled “Get Divorced Without Getting Screwed,” interviewing relationship experts as well as other dudes on their own difficult divorce journeys.
Over the years, he has counseled relationship-addled guys for a multitude of issues, including an age-old one: sticking with a relationship for the kids.
“I have never told someone to stay married for their children … ever. That is the worst reason to stay married,” Nachlinger matter-of-factly told The Post. “I always say that you teach your children what a healthy marriage is, and staying in a bad marriage hurts them more than anything else.”
Nachlinger helped a husband who did not want to split from his wife come to the decision to walk away, despite being in a wild situation: she wouldn’t end a relationship with a Nigerian man — whom she was helping to launder money.
“I reminded him about self-respect and the fact that you only live once,” Nachlinger said of the case. “He saw that he was being used. I encouraged him to look in the mirror and ask a simple question: Is the marriage over? If yes, then let’s get moving on the divorce.”
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