Even pastors learn marriage isn’t easy, but here are 5 ways to help make it work

Married life isn't easy for anyone, even pastors. Lisa and Ed Young have learned enough to give these essential principles on having a better marriage by surviving the tough times.

How does a marriage survive an out-of-order death, the loss of a child? The death of a child is considered one of the most traumatic experiences a family can experience. Research shows that bereaved parents experience more symptoms of depression, poorer wellbeing, and other health problems that can lead to divorce.    Lisa Young is a New York Times bestselling author and co-founding pastor of Fellowship Church Lisa Young’s new book is "A Path Through Pain."   

Some might think this marriage thing is easier for us pastors, but I beg to differ.  Every job has its unique challenges, for sure, but ministry is a bit complex. The expectations to live above average, which is placed on the pastor and their family is felt and often overwhelming.  Walking through pain and difficulty with others regularly brings weariness that bleeds into every aspect of life.  Let me just say that having a lasting marriage isn’t a "given" for anyone, including a pastor!