为什么毕业季不要表白?网友的经验分享走心了
China Daily
喜欢Ta就约人家出去喝喝咖啡,主动去了解人家,也让对方慢慢地接受自己。突然的热烈表白只会增加对方的心理负担。
又是一年毕业季,又有一群少年即将告别同窗,各自奔赴前程。而在大多数人的学生时代,心底总是藏着对于某个人隐秘的情愫。
那么,在离别的那一刻,到底要不要将自己的心意说给Ta听呢?
爱,无问西东?
对于这个话题,网友们众说纷纭。有人认为,如果暗恋了对方很久,那就赶紧抓住毕业这最后的机会,否则Ta就只能出现在将来你跟儿孙聊天里。
Go and just tell. The person is in front of you probably you both can't meet in future again so if you don't confess one day she or he will be just a story and you will find yourself narrating her or his story to your grandchildren.
快去告诉Ta。Ta就在你眼前,毕业后就不知人家去向何方了。如果你现在没表白,将来有一天Ta只会成为你口中的某某某,只会出现在讲给自己的儿孙故事里。
表白是很纯粹的一件事情,不需要附加那么多现实层面的考虑。有时候,人得多听从自己的内心而不是大脑。而且,即便表白失败,也能避免“抬头不见低头见”的尴尬。何乐而不为呢?
Don't stop yourself. Also listen to your heart. Sometimes we listen to our brain and neglect our true feelings but that's not good for our heart and will make you regret sometimes. You should also listen to your brain depending on the situations. Just take a decision in which you are confident that you'll not regret.
不要约束自己,倾听你的内心。我们常常听从大脑的指挥,有时却忽视了内心的真实感受,让自己伤心甚至后悔。你还需要根据情况理智分析,确保不会后悔自己做的决定。